While playing MTG, who is responsible for a triggered ability and what is the limit in time to claim it?
Let put an example:
Using the activated ability of Obsidian Fireheart, I add a counter on one of my oponent's lands. Then I end my turn and they start untapping their cards.
Is it my responsibility to tell them "hey!, don't forget to lose your 1 life" and can they intentionally foreget it otherwise?
Also, if it's my responsibility to tell them, what is my limit in time to do so?