Let us assume that Alice has 15 life, and Bob has 17. It's Alice's turn. Alice swings at Bob with a Runeclaw Bear and Grenzo's Cutthroat, a creature with dethrone.
In response to the dethrone ability, Bob casts a Dismember targeting the Bear, and paying 4 life. He is now at 13, less life than Alice. Does the dethrone ability still give the Cutthroat a counter?