The Reddit thread is correct. You lose control of Humble Defector.
Control changing effects like those on Humble Defector and Mind Control are governed by the Layer System, specifically Layer 2.
Any effect which would change the controller of the object you’re evaluating. Any ability or spell that generates this type of effect should contain the word ‘Control.’
When Mind Control enchants a creature, this creates a continuous effect changing ownership of the creature. Note that within a layer, continuous effects are applied in timestamp order. This means that if another instance of Mind Control would later enchant that creature, the new Mind Control is the one that ultimately determines control over the creature.
With regards to Humble Defector, while it is an activated ability on the card as opposed to a static ability like on Mind Control, it still creates a continuous effect that continues to apply even after the ability is done resolving. This continuous effect is no different than if a player cast another copy of Mind Control on it.
This is supported by the rules on continuous effects.
611.1. A continuous effect modifies characteristics of objects, modifies control of objects, or affects players or the rules of the game, for a fixed or indefinite period. (Control changing effects are continuous effects.)
611.2. A continuous effect may be generated by the resolution of a spell or ability. (The activated ability on Humble Defector creates a continuous effect)
611.2a A continuous effect generated by the resolution of a spell or ability lasts as long as stated by the spell or ability creating it (such as “until end of turn”). If no duration is stated, it lasts until the end of the game. (Since Humble Defector does not state a timeframe for the control changing effect, the effect lasts until end the end of the game or until the creature leaves the battlefield, whichever comes first.)
611.3. A continuous effect may be generated by the static ability of an object. (This is the continuous effect created by Mind Control.)
Please see Mtg Wiki: Continuous Effects for more details
State-based actions do not govern creature control effects. There are 24 entries for cases governed by state-based-effects, none of which talk about control of creatures.