**In the situation you describe, you would have died first. You do not get to arrange *all* triggered abilities, only the ones you control. Nobody has control over which player's abilities go on the stack first, because that is defined by the rules.**

You misunderstood the rules for multiple ability triggers at the same time:

> 603.3b If multiple abilities have triggered since the last time a player received priority, each player, in APNAP order, puts **triggered abilities they control** on the stack in any order they choose. (See rule 101.4.) Then the game once again checks for and resolves state-based actions until none are performed, then abilities that triggered during this process go on the stack. This process repeats until no new state-based actions are performed and no abilities trigger. Then the appropriate player gets priority.

In other words, triggered abilities that trigger at the same time go on the stack in blocks, where each block consists of all triggered abilities a certain player controls. These blocks go on the stack in APNAP order, and only the order within each block can be changed by its respective controller.

It was your turn, so you were the active player. Your and your opponent's Poison Tip Archer triggered at the same time. According to 603.3b, you are the first to put *your* 8 triggers on the stack in any order you choose, followed by the opponent's 4 in the order the opponent chooses. Therefore, your opponent's triggers resolve first. You lose 1 life for each trigger, and when you are at zero life, before the next ability can resolve, you would lose the game.