Is it possible for him to cast it for pro-red, before Avacyn's transform into Purifier deals it lethal damage?
Yes, players can cast instants in response to triggered abilities being added to the stack.
They can cast Faith's Shield in response to the triggering of
Archangel Avacyn's delayed triggered ability.
They can cast Faith's Shield in response to the triggering of
Avacyn, the Purifier's triggered ability.
Faith's Shield will resolve before the ability resolves, giving Protection from Red, preventing the damage from Purifier.
If so and even if not so, does the 3 damage Avacyn does to opponent allow Giltspire to tap and destroy it?
Yes. If you took damage from Purifier, Giltspire can be used to destroy it.
You'll have to use it on your opponent's turn (since that's when you took the damage), but that's not a problem since you may activate activated abilities on an opponent's turn.